Obsessions

Alright guys, we're well into the month of March and in a few days it's gonna be April, the start of my spring break challenge. I'm always pleased to write blogs, and that will not end for several months, lol.

Now, one thing i've always wanted to talk about is an issue that is very relatable to all of us. We see today that there are a lot of people (both sexes) who are obsessed when it comes to relationships. Whether it's a past relationship or something they hope to finalize. Honestly, this issue is considered weird on all levels. From my perspective, I feel that no one should be obsessed over someone for any reason.
We see that a lot of people do very ridiculous things because their obsessed over someone. Things such as making their life revolve around the person. This on all levels is very stupid and just plain wrong. And sadly in most cases, people would think that is love. But I am here to tell you that is SO NOT LOVE.
Being in love with someone should never involve you been obsessed over the person. Love doesn't entail doing stupid things just to get the attention of someone. I believe that love just falls in naturally, it's never forced and it follows through seamlessly.

Therefore, I implore my readers who are obsessed over someone to try and eradicate such behavior. Obsessions are basically sinful lusts and are deadly and can affect people in adverse ways. Just be neutral and let love find you, don't coerce it into action.

Ciao.

Ps. The spring break challenge is still accepting people, please notify me via the comment box to indicate interest. Lots of giveaways.

Just come out With It

Alright guy, its another day to write blogs. I hope y'all read  my previous blog which was posted on Sunday. If you haven't make sure you do and be sure to check others, they are all insightful. It's just amazing that we are in the middle of March and continue to emphasize on how fast time recedes.

As you observe, my title today is more of a "call to action" title than a descriptive title. This is because I have observed something that has been striking me for many years and i'm sure it's relatable to everyone.

In our millennia today, we see a lot of females creating this rule which states "that a guy in any circumstance must tell a girl he likes even though the girl likes him". To me, this rule is totally absurd on all levels. Let me ask this question, why would a female like the opposing sex and not inform the person? Are we males supposed to have magic powers that enable us to denote this? I don't think so.
Let me put this into a simple anecdote that is relatable. Let's say I like a girl, yet i am afraid of telling her about my feelings probably because she might like another guy or she's surrounded by other guys asking her out. And fortunately, this girl likes me back, but because of this rule, they keep it to themselves and that's the end to the start of a relationship.

"If you love somebody walk up to him and tell him you love him..." This is how i'm going to conclude this. We shouldn't have any problem confessing feelings for someone. If the result of that is not what was expected, then the simple thing would be to 'Move on"(I'm going to talk on that in my next blog). Let's begin to implore this kind of attitude in our lives.

Ciao

The Special Ones

Alright guys, it’s been long since I posted a blog, due to unaviodable factors. I apologize for that and hope to be a bit more consistent from now on. It’s another beautiful time (thought it's midnight) to get a spur of knowledge to write another insightful blog. The days continue to move fast and sudden,  thus we’ve made a lot of changes in our lives.

Anyways, after talking extensively about love and the intro to relationships, i’d like to dive into the main thoughts and philosophies of the female. For many years, I have observed that females primarily follow one way of dating, assessing guys and reacting to several situations. But now a new era of females have come up to defy that pattern and follow a new type. I call these people the “special ones”.

Before I digress into this pattern, I want to show the typical pattern of females today. The current female setting is very simple, females mainly use their primary assessing sense, which is based on looks and probably “first impressions”(wrote a blog on that, checkout it out). Their guard is easily brought down by this and they do not kick in their secondary sense which judges potential and long term character, attitude, special factors, etc.
But for the “special ones”, they have basically killed their first sense when it comes to boys. Probably over past experiences or preferences. They kick in their second senses which gives a more detailed explanation on a guy and fully determine whether He is boyfriend material. They tend not to show any form of affection for a guy, neither are they wooed by any guy. Basically this is just a fixed situation (i.e I like you or I don't like you). As probably denoted from this, the “special ones” choose the boys they want to scrutinize. Obviously that doesn't mean they like you, it just indicates that you have passed some kind of test into the next stage.

Now, if you have noticed in my previous blogs, I normally take a side on a matter, whether to agree or disagree. But in this case , I stand neutral. Just as no one can change nature, no one can alter the fact that there is a rising epidemic of girls using the second sense , rather than the first. Let’s see where this epidemic will get to.

Ciao. 

Physical Attractions

Wow guys, I cant believe it’s March. It was like yesterday when we were celebrating the new year, now we are in the third month,the year’s speeding by. Sorry, where are my manners. Happy new month to you guys, especially my consistent readers. You guys continue to be my motivation for writing.

Now the first step to enter a relationship or to even initiate a conversation that could possibly lead to a relationship is the “physical attraction.” No matter what we say, we can’t deny the fact that the first thing that got us to talk to a person was their physical attraction.

Basically, we all know the meaning of physical attraction but let me just share my concept. Physical attraction is a mental state where someone is attracted or “drawn to” someone just by their physical attributes, ignoring everything else. Obviously we won’t wanna talk to someone who is unattractive, but hey! It’s a philosophy of life.

On the basis of physical attractions, the success and downfall of relationships is a 40 to 60 percent rate respectively. This is because “looks are deceiving”, we never can tell someones lifestyle, but once again it’s irresistible.

So basically i want to say that though physical attractions are inevitable, let’s try to have a second thought on all encounters. Physical attractions though tempting, can result in detrimental things which obviously no person would wanna face. We should take into consideration the mental attraction accent. This acts as a secondary protection to guard these kinds of detrimental  things from happening, and yet we don’t use it at all.

Let’s be sharper this year and make all relationships count. Physical attractions, though important, are just a blurry vision. Mental attractions are the best way to go in this century. They might be rare, but not impossible to achieve.

Happy New month and cheers to many more to come.

Ciao.

Heartbreaks are just the worst, so I hope none of my readers experience any this year.