The silent rule

Recently, there has been a rule that apparently girls have when it comes to relationships; two girls that are friends cannot date their ex boyfriends. I first thought it was a joke until I confirmed it from a lot of my female viewers.

However, because I like to be neutral, I have two opinions on this rule.

1st opinion: I see a bit of truth in this. It creates tension between the friends.

2nd opinion: I think this rule is a bunch of BS. Everyone is entitled to date whosoever he/she pleases. It's all about the connection (i.e the love) , such a law should not prohibit a relationship.

Now, I know a lot of people would side with either of my opinions. But to each a compromise, I would say everything depends on the situation. If you are in a position where being in that relationship would create tension then the best option would definitely be not to go into it. But I know that there are friends out there who wouldn't care about this and thus, the obvious option would be to go ahead with the relationship


In a nutshell, it's all about the situation. Evaluate it and know the best option to go with.

I don't believe that a silent rule should reign supreme .

Ciao.

An Indepth take on long distance

Alright guys, I hope my viewers in Nigeria had a fun day since it was a public holiday. To my viewers anywhere else,  how was school? LOL.

After that brief blog on Nigeria, I  decided to go in depth into the issue of long distance relationships. It may seem I made long distance relationships look  easy to maintain, but in reality it is the hardest type.
We automatically feel that long distance relationships will be the most faithful, trustworthy and abiding(probably the couple made that vow). But this is a common misconception that has been painted in our minds for many years. There will definitely be trials and tribulations along the way, it happens in every relationship. But the difference between it happening in a long distance or close distance relationship is very distinct.

A couple who has successfully gone through a period of long distance would be able to show two main traits;

1. Ability to forgive irregardless of the offence
2. Ability to appreciate times together and times apart

 
  These aforementioned points are definitely traits needed to maintain  a serious relationship that could eventually end up in marriage.


I know marriage is not what you guys would be thinking of at the moment, but I know apart from the obvious Casanovas, everyone always longs for that serious relationship. Not just some fling.

However, love is the prevailing factor in all relationships, regardless of it being long distance or close distance. Love is the bond that keeps two people together. If you are 3000 miles or 2 miles apart, that bond should still be present.

So I implore my viewers, when ever you are faced with an option of long distance, don't just disregard it. Evaluate it, see if the love connection is strong. This could be a way to determine if you guys are truly right for each other.

PS: Next blog, I will be bringing up another issue that is plaguing teen life. It's called "How do you know you are giving out friend-zone signals?"

Be sure to log in for that soon. CIAO

HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY TO NIGERIA

So at the time I write this blog, it would be a great day . The independence day of my great country, Nigeria. Now I know I was supposed to elaborate on the issue of long distance relationships, but screw it. Nigeria is worth talking about .

Many people currently living in Nigeria have one dream, TO LEAVE . But for many years, I have continued to wonder why people would think of that. Possibly with a few issues such as ;

1. An epileptic power supply
2. Disreagrd of social amenities
3. The high level of corruption which forms as the crux of the previously aforementioned points.

 But my question to y'all is: if we all leave Nigeria, who will be there to put her on the right path towards success? Many people say Nigeria is irredeemable but I say Nigeria is like a blank canvass ready for that good artist to create beautiful artwork. There are many opportunities for our generation to become millionaires, billionaires, and leaders of this country.

Many would look at this and call me a hypocrite for not being in Nigeria at the moment. But best believe, I will be back to motherland to contribute to it's future greatness.

It took America centuries to become the country it is today. Should Nigeria's success happen overnight? Think on this.

HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY TO NIGERIA. Greater years ahead.

 

Long Distance relationships

Hello hello hello!!!!!! Been a while, basically took a summer break. There's a whole lot of things to talk about , so why not kick off with an issue plaguing everyone's mind , Long distance relationships. It's currently the start of a new school year and all the high school hook ups will be splitting ( some might go to the same school, lucky!!) . But there's a serious deliberation tat goes on between a couple; whether they have maintain a long distance relationship.

I have had many arguments with my female viewers and most if not all of them are against long distance relationships. Here are the mains  reasons why;


1. Chances of the guy cheating are higher
2. Seeing each other would be next to impoosible


Though these are somewhat tangible reasons, I dispute all of them. Long distance relationships to me is the best way to test a relationships' threshold. Following the above reasons, I will give opposing views;

1. Chances for a guy to cheat are high anywhere he is . From being in different continents to living on the same street, a guy can choose whether to cheat on his girl and she would never know.

2. This is the I find amusing, when the supposed couple were in the place , the thing we should be asking was how many times were they actually meeting? once a month? once in 2 months? Basically the chances of the couple seeing each other would be the same when they are not in the same place.

From my honest opinion, I feel girls make long distance relationships a big deal. Just thinking about the fact that you and the guy are not in the same area just pisses y'all off and so you use that to basically commit your own form of cheating(another topic I will be discussing)

I'm sorry ladies, but this is the truth. For any relationship to be Strong AF (lol) they has to be that long distance period. This beyond all doubt would definitely strengthen a relationship more than ever.

I'll be going in depth on this topic by my next blog. Just decided to give y'all a teaser.

Ciao.

Current ish of the day

Wassup people, the View is back and better. I took a quick break to gather info and release what will be a consistent stream of life issues that are taking the world by storm. I'd like to thank my good followers and hop you continue to stay with me till whenever LOL.

Before I go into today's issue. I'd just like to change a few things. "The female mind" my former blog was dissolved weeks ago, but my content lives on. topics from there are still available and new topics will be posted in due time. I know that this might not be as flashy or consistent as Linda Ikeji(famous blogger) or any other, but trust me with my content and very common topics, it's worth looking at.

Now enough of all that, let's go into the crux of this blog. From my previous blog (caitlyn or bruce jenner), I decided to bring another issue similar to this. Recently, the United States has approved same sex marriage across all 50 states. This has sparked mixed emotions across the worlds; the LGBT community is very please, but other communities (especially the christian community) has been evry displeased with this. Now we definitely know why, because being gay is seriously frowned upon in the christian world. The story of sodom and Gomorrah says it all. But i'm not delving into that area.
What I want to mention is how this rule has affected the christian community.

Since this law was put into place, a lot of pastors have been arrested because they refused to marry gay couples. Why should that now be a crime when the basic principles of Christianity are based on the bible(which clearly frowns on it)? It's still a baffling issue.

I therefore leave y'all with this question . Don't you think the Gay culture is slowly affecting the christian community?

Ciao, till next time.

The courage of transgenders is growing at an alarming rate

Alright guys, i'm back officially after a long break from the blogosphere. As stated in my previous blog, i'll be talking about different things going on in our world today.

First of all, i'd like to take about this Bruce Jenner transition thing. Frankly, I feel it's an appalling thing for a grown man to come out on TV to say he's bi-sexual. I mean WTF is that? Probably I'm speaking on the basis that I'm an African and we frown on this types of things, but I'm going to keep it as unbiased as possible. The real thing i want to talk about on this case is the fact that ESPN is going to award him(or her) an award for courage. WHY???!!! There are millions, heck, billions of people who's actions have made them courageous but ESPN found Bruce(or Catlyn ) Jenner worthy for the award. And suprisingly, we haven't heard of any protest against it. The world just accepted the fact that someone we once knew as a man is now a woman (or in the middle).

In the first place, I see no reason what so ever why a male or female would want to change to the opposite sex. What is the moral gain or benefit of doing such? It's still a wonderment to every living human being outside the well fenced USA.
 
The USA is the most reputable country in the world and some people continue to tarnish it's image. Let's acknowledge the people who deserve that award, Bruce(or Catlyn) Jenner should just sit down somewhere and reminisce on what he has done.

I'm Back and Better

Wassup guys, it's been a while since i posted something new. Transitioning into a new blog takes sometime and planning, but i have been able to sort out everything and in this new blog, I will be talking on general issues; technology, entertainment, sports, relationships and what not(stuff i did in the previous blog). I plan to post on the current issues in this period, and i hope to release stuff that i'm sure will make y'all more interested to read the blog. This time around, i wont be having planned dates, so the blogs will be released hopefully 2-3 times each week (note: this can vary). If there is any issue that any of you guys (my readers) would like for me to add, i will gladly adhere to it. Any suggestions you have on what could make this blog more interesting, feel free to notify me on all my social platforms (Facebook, twitter, bbm, snapchat). It's only when i know what the readers like that's when i'll be able to give them what they want.

Official start date is June 1.

New things are in play.

Ciao.