HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY TO NIGERIA

So at the time I write this blog, it would be a great day . The independence day of my great country, Nigeria. Now I know I was supposed to elaborate on the issue of long distance relationships, but screw it. Nigeria is worth talking about .

Many people currently living in Nigeria have one dream, TO LEAVE . But for many years, I have continued to wonder why people would think of that. Possibly with a few issues such as ;

1. An epileptic power supply
2. Disreagrd of social amenities
3. The high level of corruption which forms as the crux of the previously aforementioned points.

 But my question to y'all is: if we all leave Nigeria, who will be there to put her on the right path towards success? Many people say Nigeria is irredeemable but I say Nigeria is like a blank canvass ready for that good artist to create beautiful artwork. There are many opportunities for our generation to become millionaires, billionaires, and leaders of this country.

Many would look at this and call me a hypocrite for not being in Nigeria at the moment. But best believe, I will be back to motherland to contribute to it's future greatness.

It took America centuries to become the country it is today. Should Nigeria's success happen overnight? Think on this.

HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY TO NIGERIA. Greater years ahead.

 

Long Distance relationships

Hello hello hello!!!!!! Been a while, basically took a summer break. There's a whole lot of things to talk about , so why not kick off with an issue plaguing everyone's mind , Long distance relationships. It's currently the start of a new school year and all the high school hook ups will be splitting ( some might go to the same school, lucky!!) . But there's a serious deliberation tat goes on between a couple; whether they have maintain a long distance relationship.

I have had many arguments with my female viewers and most if not all of them are against long distance relationships. Here are the mains  reasons why;


1. Chances of the guy cheating are higher
2. Seeing each other would be next to impoosible


Though these are somewhat tangible reasons, I dispute all of them. Long distance relationships to me is the best way to test a relationships' threshold. Following the above reasons, I will give opposing views;

1. Chances for a guy to cheat are high anywhere he is . From being in different continents to living on the same street, a guy can choose whether to cheat on his girl and she would never know.

2. This is the I find amusing, when the supposed couple were in the place , the thing we should be asking was how many times were they actually meeting? once a month? once in 2 months? Basically the chances of the couple seeing each other would be the same when they are not in the same place.

From my honest opinion, I feel girls make long distance relationships a big deal. Just thinking about the fact that you and the guy are not in the same area just pisses y'all off and so you use that to basically commit your own form of cheating(another topic I will be discussing)

I'm sorry ladies, but this is the truth. For any relationship to be Strong AF (lol) they has to be that long distance period. This beyond all doubt would definitely strengthen a relationship more than ever.

I'll be going in depth on this topic by my next blog. Just decided to give y'all a teaser.

Ciao.

Current ish of the day

Wassup people, the View is back and better. I took a quick break to gather info and release what will be a consistent stream of life issues that are taking the world by storm. I'd like to thank my good followers and hop you continue to stay with me till whenever LOL.

Before I go into today's issue. I'd just like to change a few things. "The female mind" my former blog was dissolved weeks ago, but my content lives on. topics from there are still available and new topics will be posted in due time. I know that this might not be as flashy or consistent as Linda Ikeji(famous blogger) or any other, but trust me with my content and very common topics, it's worth looking at.

Now enough of all that, let's go into the crux of this blog. From my previous blog (caitlyn or bruce jenner), I decided to bring another issue similar to this. Recently, the United States has approved same sex marriage across all 50 states. This has sparked mixed emotions across the worlds; the LGBT community is very please, but other communities (especially the christian community) has been evry displeased with this. Now we definitely know why, because being gay is seriously frowned upon in the christian world. The story of sodom and Gomorrah says it all. But i'm not delving into that area.
What I want to mention is how this rule has affected the christian community.

Since this law was put into place, a lot of pastors have been arrested because they refused to marry gay couples. Why should that now be a crime when the basic principles of Christianity are based on the bible(which clearly frowns on it)? It's still a baffling issue.

I therefore leave y'all with this question . Don't you think the Gay culture is slowly affecting the christian community?

Ciao, till next time.

The courage of transgenders is growing at an alarming rate

Alright guys, i'm back officially after a long break from the blogosphere. As stated in my previous blog, i'll be talking about different things going on in our world today.

First of all, i'd like to take about this Bruce Jenner transition thing. Frankly, I feel it's an appalling thing for a grown man to come out on TV to say he's bi-sexual. I mean WTF is that? Probably I'm speaking on the basis that I'm an African and we frown on this types of things, but I'm going to keep it as unbiased as possible. The real thing i want to talk about on this case is the fact that ESPN is going to award him(or her) an award for courage. WHY???!!! There are millions, heck, billions of people who's actions have made them courageous but ESPN found Bruce(or Catlyn ) Jenner worthy for the award. And suprisingly, we haven't heard of any protest against it. The world just accepted the fact that someone we once knew as a man is now a woman (or in the middle).

In the first place, I see no reason what so ever why a male or female would want to change to the opposite sex. What is the moral gain or benefit of doing such? It's still a wonderment to every living human being outside the well fenced USA.
 
The USA is the most reputable country in the world and some people continue to tarnish it's image. Let's acknowledge the people who deserve that award, Bruce(or Catlyn) Jenner should just sit down somewhere and reminisce on what he has done.

I'm Back and Better

Wassup guys, it's been a while since i posted something new. Transitioning into a new blog takes sometime and planning, but i have been able to sort out everything and in this new blog, I will be talking on general issues; technology, entertainment, sports, relationships and what not(stuff i did in the previous blog). I plan to post on the current issues in this period, and i hope to release stuff that i'm sure will make y'all more interested to read the blog. This time around, i wont be having planned dates, so the blogs will be released hopefully 2-3 times each week (note: this can vary). If there is any issue that any of you guys (my readers) would like for me to add, i will gladly adhere to it. Any suggestions you have on what could make this blog more interesting, feel free to notify me on all my social platforms (Facebook, twitter, bbm, snapchat). It's only when i know what the readers like that's when i'll be able to give them what they want.

Official start date is June 1.

New things are in play.

Ciao.

Friendzones

Lol, this word gets me all the time. I mean, What's the origin of this word? and how did it become popuplar? The word is just as complex as it is, but i'm definitely going to break it down.

First of all, what is the meaning of a friend zone? believe it or not, I'm getting this definition from wikipedia (imagine that!!) It means "a platonic relationship (just friends!!) wherein one person, most commonly a man (totally disagree), wishes to enter into a romantic or sexual relationship, while the other does not" . often times people wonder why they are in the friend zone, so i have narrowed it down to ten reasons i have gathered or witnessed over the years;

• You are related, or a scoundrel (most unlikely)
•  You are trying too hard to be cool (mental state of mind)
•  You are not convinced you are meant for each other ( most common out of them all, it's mostly the girls that have this weird feeling that things would go wrong, Lol)
•  You are being too nice ( it's a controversial reason, but i think that being too nice sends off more of a platonic vibe than a relationship vibe. Just the right amount of nice is required)

Basically, those things are the common reasons relationships are platonic. Sometimes, there could be rare reasons which i don't wanna dive into (mainly because they're too long). But all the same, there is a way to get out of the friendzone no matter what situation you're in.

 So therefore, the best ways to get out of a friendzone are;

• Don't wait too long to ask him/her out or you run the risk of being "friend zoned".
• Don't throw yourself at him/her either though. Never a good idea.
• You should flirt, but don't flirt with other people. Make the person in question feel special.
• And lastly, stop giving out the "friendship signals" (that's a blog coming out tomorrow, try to understand it tho) chances are that the other person, because of this has already thought that the idea of being more than friends is off the table and will just stick to being friends.

Now this is what I call a simple guide to the end of friendzones!!

Ciao.

Friendship before relationships.

Usually, I do not release two blogs on the same day. But the spur of information I'm currently processing is just too much to keep in.

Now, from the title you'd basically have a general idea of what i'm going to write. But i'm also a bit sure that elaboration is needed.
In today's world, we have completely eliminated the friendship aspects of relationships. What I mean is that, we just jump from meeting someone to dating the person. We do not pass through the long stage of friendship. Practically, the friendship aspect is a lot of time and people feel that so many things could go wrong and things could be misinterpreted if the intentions to date are not clearly put out. But i'm here to say that the friendship aspect does matter. It helps to build a strong foundation for serious relationships to thrive through any circumstance.
As we all know, being friends means secrets and important things in our lives are being shared, the friendship becomes a sort of "confidant relationship" where each person confides in the other. So, transiting to dating from friendship would be as seamless as possible. There would be more trust and definitely, the love would be as strong as ever.

"Friendships before relationships" is a great approach to reach the ultimate goal.

CIAO.