Finding Contempt In Our Relationships (1)

It’s a beautiful day to write blogs. Waking up in the morning and just getting a spur to write something creative is just the beauty of my blog. I’d like to wish every a Happy Sunday and once again  I apologize for releasing this blog later than scheduled.

Continuing from my previous blog , i have decided to branch to bring in something that is very common in our society today. Nowadays, we see in a lot of relationships that people are never satisfied with their partners and just resort to cheating. This is as a result of a lack of contempt today.

Before I dive into this topic, i’d like to elaborate on the concept of contempt. The feeling of contempt means to be satisfied with what ever you have in whatever situation you are faced with, be it rich or poor. This concept pertains to all works of life, including our relationships. A lot of people today just jump into relationships and in the end cause devastation due to the fact that they don’t have feelings for their partner and thus divert them to another. This is very appalling and me wonder why people get into relationships in the first place.

I do understand that we have standards on what we find in a partner, but these standards can never be fully met because no one is perfect, and thus when we enter relationships we always have to make a compromise to be someone that is close to their standards. But in this century , many people do not understand that fact.

Being in any relationship requires you to be committed and trustworthy. Going into a relationship  is like signing a contract, you adhere to the terms and never devoid it. We should understand the compromise entailed before going into a relationship. There are so many ways to get whatever a person wants without Defining the relationship (DTR).

Thus I implore all my readers to be committed in any relationship. Never waver. And in the where you want to, be a gentleman or gentlewoman and give a clean breakup. Nothing is more painful than seeing other people whilst in a relationship. It’s just maddening.

Commitment is key here, never let go of that.

Auf Wiedersehen (good bye).