The Concept of "Love"

 In this month of February, we have the most celebrated holiday of all time. The St. Valentine’s day. And thus, this has prompted me to kick off this blog with the topic of Love. “Love” is something that cannot be fully emphasized in any relationship and scenario, and thus i have decided to take a deep insight into this matter which will run through the month. 

Now before we can fully understand the female mind, we first have to understand the concept of the word called “love”. Frankly, i think “love” is the most used and misconceptualized word i have come across in my modern day vocabulary. In the 21st century, “love” has degraded in terms of it’s weight and effect as compared to probably the 20th century and back. 

It baffles me whenever i hear someone say “ I love you”  because obviously in this modern age, no one is fully understanding the consequences and actions taken to support such a phrase. Which obviously should carry a lot of emotions. We just say it like we say good morning on a regular basis, which is obviously BAD!!!. Why is it that it’s this century that we mostly hear of breakups and divorces? It’s because the average “John Doe" can be going around telling every “Jane Doe” that he loves her, but yet do you think that a guy would be attached to more than one girl if he actually loved any? Certainly not. 

Love is supposed to be a rare thing, and when it occurs , every part of our body is supposed to feel a “tingling” sensation which spurs up other emotions (which will be discussed later). We make “love” today seem mediocre and of no value as many would say “ I love you” just to get something in return . I call this “Beneficial Love” , a kind of Love that is solely based on what can be gotten rather than what can be felt. And this is sadly the case in 60-85% of our relationships. Most times i hear people mention the popular phrase “Love is blind” to conceal all the revealing factors of a “bad” relationship. To an extent, yes, love is blind, but not stupid. We tend to basically love people for their outward appearances, regardless of their values and what they stand for. This can never in a million years be “love” , it just can’t be. 

Thus, in a nutshell, I implore all my viewers to search within their deeper self. “Love” should be translated into a beautiful feeling that is strongly felt on all levels. Let us please not just consider the outwards, but also the inwards. Let us be sure that whatever relationship we get into should be out of a feeling and not an observation. Let us bring back “love” as a deep emotion and not as a superficial and unrealistic thing. 

The future of relationships depends  on this.

Aurevior till next time.