wow, wow, wow. It's another time to write a blog. April's ending in a few days and as May comes, so comes the new chapter of my blog (*sobs). But hopefully, I will be incorporating my adventures in the female mind into other blogs. Once again, I wanna commend my readers for the continuous growth in pageviews. Without y'all, writing this would just be in vain.
There's one thing i've noticed in a lot of relationships today. We all ASSUME. Basically what that means is we just take too many things for granted when it comes to being in a relationship. Relationships are all about allocating and committing to a specific amount of attention and time (because let's face it, we can't allocate all the time in the world to one area). This is supposed to be the case, but what i see today is from far that. A lot of couples seem to just be lackadaisical about the important stuff when it comes to issues such as attention and understanding signals.
In the area of attention, as aforementioned, we can't give all the time in the world to our boyfriends or girlfriends. That would be pure madness. The key to understanding attention is that it's given wholeheartedly when the time comes. Most times we see a nonchalant behavior in this area, and it just signals that the interest in the relationship is dying or dead.
Understanding signals in relationships are very important. We can never say what we feel all the time, but we definitely show it. Either by body movements, mood and even by the words we say. Being in a serious relationship entails us to deduce or critically think about what's happening in the relationship. Most of us don't do that. We just feel that once the people involved accept the relationship, then the hard part is over. But sadly i'm here to say IT IS NOT.
Thus, I implore all my readers to develop a critical eye when dating someone ( if it's serious). The acceptance to date is just a little step, the huge steps come in after that and so we can never get a break.
Critical thinking is key....Ciao
There's one thing i've noticed in a lot of relationships today. We all ASSUME. Basically what that means is we just take too many things for granted when it comes to being in a relationship. Relationships are all about allocating and committing to a specific amount of attention and time (because let's face it, we can't allocate all the time in the world to one area). This is supposed to be the case, but what i see today is from far that. A lot of couples seem to just be lackadaisical about the important stuff when it comes to issues such as attention and understanding signals.In the area of attention, as aforementioned, we can't give all the time in the world to our boyfriends or girlfriends. That would be pure madness. The key to understanding attention is that it's given wholeheartedly when the time comes. Most times we see a nonchalant behavior in this area, and it just signals that the interest in the relationship is dying or dead.
Understanding signals in relationships are very important. We can never say what we feel all the time, but we definitely show it. Either by body movements, mood and even by the words we say. Being in a serious relationship entails us to deduce or critically think about what's happening in the relationship. Most of us don't do that. We just feel that once the people involved accept the relationship, then the hard part is over. But sadly i'm here to say IT IS NOT.
Thus, I implore all my readers to develop a critical eye when dating someone ( if it's serious). The acceptance to date is just a little step, the huge steps come in after that and so we can never get a break.
Critical thinking is key....Ciao
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