Wassup guys, it's been a while since I posted a new blog. It's really saddening that I couldn't post as much as I wanted to (or as much as I implied), but I will be digressing a lot into the final topics which are going to be as applicable as the other blogs I have written. We are well into the month of April and before we know it, May will be rolling in. I very excited to be announcing that I will be closing this chapter of my blog( a bit sad tho) to expand my horizons in other topics such as music, movies, sports, technology etc. I hope that all my readers will continue to follow me and even more to come. Honestly it's the continuous increase in viewers that keeps me writing, BIG UP TO YOU GUYS!!
Now, obviously that's not going to stop me from writing today's blog. In today's world, we see a lot of broken relationships. Be it marriages, engagements, or just the normal and more rampant " boyfriend girlfriend" matter. Some people don't experience it ( lucky bastards) but a majority of us do. The thing is breakups always happen, but what I want to address today is how to alleviate yourself from the euphoria of a broken heart (assuming you truly loved your partner). Now there are five post breakup stages that happen in life:
1. The shock
2. The Anger
3. The denial
4. The Non-acceptance
5. The Acceptance
Now, let's briefly analyze these stages. The first stage basically happens right after the breakup has occurred. You're usually trying to wrap your head around the fact that the person you once called your boo or bae (lol) is now just the person's name. Its pretty much an unraveling session. The second stage is the one we commonly see in the breakup situation, because there could be many reasons as to why the breakup occurred, be it the guy cheated or there was no more love or the relationship just fizzled out. In any case, you basically get angry and this stage might arguably be the longest of the stages. The third stage is usually a short phase where you're in complete denial, meaning anytime you are asked what happened or if the relationship is still on, you try to evade the question. This stage i can confidently say happens to everyone who goes through this. The non-acceptance stage is where you still can't wrap around the fact that you guys broke up and thus you wanna try to get back together, but this ultimately fails. The final stage is the only point at which you have accept that IT'S OVER and there's nothing you can do. This is the point when you officially move on.
If you do not believe me, evaluate yourself when you were going through the breakup phase and you'll definitely see what i'm talking about. From my perspective, I do believe that if the person you're dating is "the one" (as the white people would call it) then there would be no breakups. Some people believe that if the person is "the one" , then "fate" would bring them back together at an important time in their lives. What ever the case is, whenever a brakeup occurs, the best thing is to pick yourself up and go through these five stages as quick as possible.
After all, "THERE ARE MANY FISHES IN THE SEA" .
Ciao y'all.
Now, obviously that's not going to stop me from writing today's blog. In today's world, we see a lot of broken relationships. Be it marriages, engagements, or just the normal and more rampant " boyfriend girlfriend" matter. Some people don't experience it ( lucky bastards) but a majority of us do. The thing is breakups always happen, but what I want to address today is how to alleviate yourself from the euphoria of a broken heart (assuming you truly loved your partner). Now there are five post breakup stages that happen in life:
1. The shock
2. The Anger
3. The denial
4. The Non-acceptance
5. The Acceptance
Now, let's briefly analyze these stages. The first stage basically happens right after the breakup has occurred. You're usually trying to wrap your head around the fact that the person you once called your boo or bae (lol) is now just the person's name. Its pretty much an unraveling session. The second stage is the one we commonly see in the breakup situation, because there could be many reasons as to why the breakup occurred, be it the guy cheated or there was no more love or the relationship just fizzled out. In any case, you basically get angry and this stage might arguably be the longest of the stages. The third stage is usually a short phase where you're in complete denial, meaning anytime you are asked what happened or if the relationship is still on, you try to evade the question. This stage i can confidently say happens to everyone who goes through this. The non-acceptance stage is where you still can't wrap around the fact that you guys broke up and thus you wanna try to get back together, but this ultimately fails. The final stage is the only point at which you have accept that IT'S OVER and there's nothing you can do. This is the point when you officially move on.If you do not believe me, evaluate yourself when you were going through the breakup phase and you'll definitely see what i'm talking about. From my perspective, I do believe that if the person you're dating is "the one" (as the white people would call it) then there would be no breakups. Some people believe that if the person is "the one" , then "fate" would bring them back together at an important time in their lives. What ever the case is, whenever a brakeup occurs, the best thing is to pick yourself up and go through these five stages as quick as possible.After all, "THERE ARE MANY FISHES IN THE SEA" .
Ciao y'all.
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